Independence Day

The Virginia BBQ

As we celebrate our nation's birthday, it is hard to believe we are also planning for Lila's big number 2!  Like most mothers I reflect on her short little life and at the same time marvel at the big changes that have morphed our bouncing baby girl into a blossoming toddler.  We can no longer keep lists of "Lila's words" as there are too many to count.  I am grateful for the summer slow down that has enabled me to spend more time with our "Little Miss Independence," who along with many newly acquired skills, now feeds herself, opens the front door and creates long stretches of imaginary play with dress-up and caring for her "babies."

We welcomed the early June summer with a visit to my family's original hometown of Virginia, Illinois for the annual barbecue celebration, where we had a wonderful visit with Grandma Donna and even made the cover of the local paper.  There is nothing better to mark the beginning of lazy days then to leave the city hustle and bustle behind in exchange for a welcome dose of small-town stroll.  Carnival rides, kettle korn and homemade pie are just the ticket for the greatest escape.

For our local escape we are grateful for the pool that is just outside our door.  Last year's waterbaby is now a fearless fish, jumping off the side of the pool and scampering up the ladder.  I try to hold on tight in all senses of the word to little Lila, savoring the moments when she still wants to curl up in my arms, especially her newly discovered love of back scratches which provides happiness for us both. 

We were at an event last week and one of my single friends asked if I ever get tired of chasing Lila.  While there are times where I may wish she would slow down, I remind myself that these early days of independence are just the beginning and I savor every moment.  When we went to Virginia, Lila's little feet re-traced steps my feet took at the same age, many of them taken holding the hand of my grandfather.  While Lila will never know her great-grandfather David, by taking her to visit the same place that holds such precious memories for me, it is the closest I can get her to the magic of the man who proved if we encourage our children's independence they will go far but still enjoy the journey back home. 

What's new:  Lila can count to ten, runs very fast, loves taking care of her "babies," graduated from her first season of the Little Gym in early June having mastered the forward role and hanging from the bars, and will return in the fall for "Twinkle Toes" which is introductory dance.  And finally, while we have no idea who taught her- Lila has mastered the fist pump. Food:  Despite her petite stature, Lila's insatiable appetite continues and there is little that doesn't appeal to her little palate! Favorites- Vegetable dumplings (has been known to eat five in one sitting), vegetable meatballs, corn on the cob, black beans and corn, eggs, roasted potatoes- and everything with a little spice!